There are many great organizations doing crucial work, includingRAICESFood Not BombsandProject Neutral to tell the most “dramatic” story possible? “I am young and I do have a wild personality,” Bekah says of how the show portrayed her, “but people might be surprised by [the fact] that I'm not really a big partier at all. I don't really go out that much. I really like staying in and reading, or just having hangouts with just a couple close friends. I don't have as much of a gregarious social life as you might expect.” And while they’ve shared some pretty stellar snapshots of married life with fans, they know to keep some things private. "You want to be normal, go out without the fear of people hounding you, but if I'm happy then I'm not going to give that up to be private,”Sophie toldThe Times franchise doesn’t exactly set contestants up for friendly bonding sessions. After all, the entire point of the show is to “fight” for one person’s final rose, which inevitably ends up pitting the contestants against one another. (On paper, the premise can and does feel sexist and dated.) And in a culture that often consumesfights between women