While moments like Alessa's win and Kesha's performance did have a chance to shine at the awards show, the Grammys also has a long history of awarding men over women. This year, SZA was snubbed of all five of her nominations, and Ed Sheeran won "Best Pop Solo Performance" over Kesha. And don't forget: it was just last year that the Recording Academy snubbed Beyoncé's groundbreakingLemonade writes poems that have a tendency to give you that “ooh, wow” feeling, that tear-a-heart-out-and-stomp-on-it feeling. In her poem “Survival Tactics,” Yesika bluntly describes her feelings toward those whom she chooses to date: “I am only a picture on a website/only a name on a direct message/a profile/description that says I am Salvadoran/and only date men of color.” The poem continues, “I can only love you/to find breath in someone/that understands the suffocation/meaning, I can only love somebody/that doesn’t look like/what took everything.”Her now completed trilogy of collections,Corazón, Tesoro,and the newly releasedHermosa "For 14 months, I haven’t been able to make him a meal. For 14 months, I can’t hug my child. It doesn’t matter how old he is, he’s my boy. Every night I cannot sleep. And I wake up every single day at 4:30 in the morning to try to give back to my community what the community deserves." this week. "Growing up she would always do my hair. She was always the one to make me chocolate milk or rice when I came home.” She took the show home with her, and shared her grandmother’s words of advice: "When you come back, you show [the Mirrorball Trophy] to me. ‘Look what I win!'"